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Hero of the Month - Timothy Dexter

a three hour tour

G: Thursday  we went on another (my third week in a row) bike ride to Franklin's, with Rich and TvTom. John's bike wasn't shifting right and we stopped on the way for him to fiddle with it. When he couldn't get it working right he decided to go home instead of trying to keep up with us. He took off with the backpack in which all my stuff I might need was, but Rich had money and Tom had a lock.

A few minutes after we arrived I saw John approaching, and assumed he'd driven, but it turned out he just didn't want us waiting for him so he let us go ahead and then continued the ride, after fixing his bike to a higher gear. I was glad to see him. I had felt bad about going on without him. Some people met us there - Suzette and Melanie, Greg, and Susan. We had a nice time.

Saturday night John and I went down to the New Deal Cafe for another Dan Hart show. This time he had another funny folk singer with him, Carla Ulbrich. I'd heard two of her songs on my Dr. Demento Basement CD's, "What If Your Girlfriend Was Gone" and a parody of that, "What If Your Butt Was Gone," written about a time when she was very ill and lost a lot of weight. She sang another song, "What If You Only Had One Good Song" to the same tune.

I bought all of her (three) CD's and singles (two). I'm a funny music fan! As in, the music is funny, not me. I guess.

Sunday was a fabulous day for a canoe trip on the Shenandoah river for Kristin's birthday, so off we went. It was also Luisa's birthday. We met up with Andy, Kristin, Alison, Luisa, her beau Andrew, TVTom, Greg, and Suzette and Melanie in Harper's Ferry. After a long time of getting everyone signed off, driving to a pickup point, being taken to the drop off point, and getting the canoes in the water, we were off! Since we were an odd number, TVTom decided to try the kayak.

We had a great time. Alison took a dip in the river and then it started to rain. Tom got caught on the rocks which caused him to capsize. Alison and Kristin paddled back to save him while the rest of us took refuge under the trees at the shore. When it looked like the rescue operation was not going so well, John and I started toward them, but only got halfway there before all was well again.

Andy and Greg were very amusing with their extremely laid back style of canoeing, sitting in the bottom, leaning back, and Greg with his feet up on the bow.

We came to an area with lots of quite small rock islands and pulled in for a island "exploration". Before reaching them I spotted a rock outcropping ahead that looked remarkably like King Kong peering out from the trees.

Greg declared the island his in the name of Greg, so we called it Greg Island.

Some people took a little dip (Alison, Suzette, Andrew, me) and I took lots of pictures. We headed off and just about when people were starting to feel like it had almost been enough, we saw the exit point ahead. There were some very minor rapids along the way, but near the end was a long stretch of them. That's where Tom got caught on the rocks and capsized again. Kristin and Alison to the rescue! This time he just got into the canoe and they towed the kayak the short way back.

We returned home for showers then went back over to the Looneys for cake-stravaganza. Yay!

A lovely day. Thanks and Happy Birthday Kristin!

This Wednesday I had free so I made plans to visit my friend Amy in DC. She's a realtor and has a busy, hectic schedule. In the morning she called and said her grandmother had gone into the hospital so our visit would have to be shorter. That was alright, we could still get a couple of hours in. I went over (damn that beltway traffic even after rush hour should be mostly over it is jammed! It's very aggravating and I don't know how people stand to commute that way. I guess you get used to it...) and we got going on a little bike ride around the neighborhood. We rode down a long winding stretch in Rock Creek park, and payed for it with a big uphill later. We then headed for a restaurant (Domku) for brunch. We arrived 8 minutes before they opened and had to wait out on the city sidewalk. Amy kept saying she was really hot and zoning in and out. We went into a convenience store next door and I pretended I was interested in getting something out of each of the refrigerators so I could open the doors to try to cool her off. I thought it was kinda funny but she really wasn't feeling well. We got into the restaurant and drank a lot of water and Amy got them to give her some bread, and we ordered food, but she just wasn't recovering and we soon just got a ride from the owner back to her place. She got comfortable in bed and we hung out and she slowly felt better. Turns out it was a code orange (air quality bad) day, she hadn't eaten anything before we left (neither had I), and another factor or two probably converged to make her feel bad, but she's fine now. Be careful out there!

Today was a memorial service for Joyce Abell. Saw many friends there, and a lot of people who used to work at Beautiful Day. It was nice to see all those people. Her son Shaun gave a lovely eulogy at the beginning, which a friend said he found very comforting. The rest was a Catholic mass. Afterwards there was a reception at the firehouse next door. I spent a long time there chatting with friends and reminiscing.

metabernean games


While Transactional Analysis may work in a positive way with psychologists and their patients, I think the layman's version  often evolves into a Bernean game of its own, along the lines of "I Got You Now, You S.O.B."


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